Better today!

So today has been better, nothing majorly different happened but my outlook was different. I was positive and rather than listen to the negative voice I shouted over the top of it! I have eaten well, been to work, done some housework put some music on and bopped round the house with a smile on my face! An I feel good, I feel happy and although I know I'm not yet where I want to be, I know I am on my way!
 
Virginia spoke about the life affirming book she lent me and I have been using it, I don't yet believe them all but by saying them I'm sure eventually I will! One of my favourites from the book is "Whatever happens I will handle it" above all others this is probably the most important.
 
Say it to yourself and realise it is true!

xTTFNx

Comments

  1. Virginia21 January 2011 at 17:23

    Lovely - positive sister - keep saying it over and over and it will make sense - I promise!

    See you tomorrow!

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  2. Fiona21 January 2011 at 18:26

    Kick that negative voice right in the shins! Hope you are well!! :)

    Love fi x x x x x

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  3. Sandra Hall22 January 2011 at 00:49

    I like the idea of 'shouting over the top of the negative voices'! Can you come and scare mine off too :)
    Seriously Mel, this might be doing you a power of good but it's helping me too! Keep at it!

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